Here David talks about the hot topic question of, what does a woman bring to the relationship table.
Or better yet, what does a man want a woman to actually bring to the table?
Transcript:
How many of you ladies have ever been asked by a man on a date, what do you bring to the table?
What do you bring into a relationship?
How many of you right at that moment were totally checked out of the date and checked out of that guy?
But how many of you have thought that he may have been asking a deep question?
You may have just checked out of the man of your dreams.
You see ladies when we’re asking what do you bring to the table, what do you bring to the relationship, we’re asking you a deep question hoping you’re the kind of woman who will give us a genuinely deep response.
Let’s see, here the most common thing I see from comments and dating coaches is women I don’t bring anything to the table, ‘I exist at the table, I simply am the table.’
One day I had a lady here who made a video about me, she said that she doesn’t bring anything into a relationship, she exists within the relationship, the men bring things to her.
Ladies I’m sorry if that’s the kind of crap nonsense you’re believing, I’m gonna tell you like I told her, you need to get used to being alone because just like that dating coach, you’re going to be alone for a long, long time.
Ladies when a guy asks you what do you bring to the table, he’s not asking about your finances, he’s not asking about your career ambitions, how much money you’re going to bring in to help support his life.
He’s not asking what kind of accolades you’ve built up or achievements for yourself.
He’s asking about what kind of woman you are, what kind of woman deep down in your heart and soul are you, and how do you give that into a relationship.
What kind of energy do you bring into a relationship, how do you give your heart to your man, how do you reciprocate and let him give his heart and his love and energy into you?
What kind of things do you do for your appreciation and how do you allow him to show appreciation to you.
We’re asking a deep question, we’re hoping to get a deep answer from you guys.
Instead, the fourth wave feminists have just kind of stuck us on this ‘men and women are so equal that when men look for something in a woman it’s the same thing you look for in a man. We ask you what you bring to the table, we’re asking for what kind of providership what kind of provision you’re going to give us, what kind of wealth you’re going to help us generate.’
That’s not true.
If you’ve heard that, if you believe that you believe the lie.
Ladies when a guy asks you about that, he wants to know about all the intangible things that he can’t have himself.
He’s a man, we’re masculine by nature, we want to have all the same traits and qualities that you have as a feminine woman and those are the things we want.
We don’t want these masculine traits that you look for in a man and who ever told you that we did lied to you.
What we want are the soft traits you have as a woman.
We want your heart, we want to know what kind of feminine energy you’re going to give to us, we want to know what kind of beautiful mind you have that you’re going to pour out into our relationship, that helps us become a beautiful thing and grow that into a marriage, or a life that actually lasts and is successful.
We want to know what kind of woman you’re going to be, and want to be when it comes to being a family, it comes to building up something, or having kids, we want to know what kind of woman you want to be as far as being a wife or whether you even want to be a wife.
We’re not asking about these stupid little tangible things that you’ve already accomplished when we ask you what you bring to the relationship, what you bring to the table.
We’re asking, what are you going to bring as far as yourself to help build this relationship up into something incredible that lasts a lifetime with both of us being happy, and satisfied, and loving each other, and cherishing every moment that we have together.
Ladies if you checked out on a guy when he asked you that, you may have checked out on the guy who is genuinely looking to build the life of your dreams.
Think about it, you bring a lot to the table.
You bring a lot to the relationships, don’t ever believe one of these crazy feminist dating coaches telling you, you don’t bring anything in.
They’re trying to keep you single so that they can keep making money off you as a dating coach.
You bring tons to a relationship, you bring your heart, your softness, your femininity, and every one of those other qualities that we as a man don’t have within us, that we are desperately looking for within you.
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