Women want a high-value man, here’s how you can become him.

Do you want to become a high-value man that women love and are attracted to?

The words high-value man bring to mind men of success in whatever they do, men of ambition and kindheartedness. 

High-value men represent healthy masculinity and strength in a relationship.  

It represents the idea of a man who keeps himself healthy and fit while pursuing his passions and his loves. 

So here are 15 traits of a high-value man that women love and how you can embrace them in yourself.

1. High-value men possess confidence  

It shouldn’t be any kind of surprise to hear that women continuously list confidence among the very topmost attractive qualities they look for in a man. 

That drive in them has developed for good reason. 

Confidence usually comes from competence. 

It’s something that must be built up within a man just as he has to build himself into being a high-value man. 

Confidence isn’t something that can be faked.  

It’s something he exudes and something that a woman can feel. 

2. High-value men are trustworthy 

When a man is honest and trustworthy, he immediately becomes more desirable to women. 

Being trustworthy takes a variety of traits that each have to be built up and strengthened. 

And that strength is naturally attractive to women. 

Think of the high-value men you know of. 

The true influencers of the world that people genuinely look up too.  

Chances are they are all trustworthy and that has been a driving force behind them achieving greatness. 

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3. High-value men have integrity 

A man of integrity is someone who has strong moral principles and values that he sticks to. 

Having integrity is like being trustworthy.  

It takes a variety of traits and skill to be able to stand firm in your values and for what is right. 

And men of integrity are looked at as more attractive by women because that mental fortitude shows that he is driven to do what’s right. 

And that translates into doing right in a relationship. 

Men of integrity can be looked up to as a moral leader of the family and as someone to respect. 

When a woman can look up to her man, that builds attraction like nothing else. 

It builds that deep desire to build something real with him. 

4. High-value men have compassion for others 

Compassion is that empathetic understanding of what others are going through and women love it in a man. 

That’s because compassion is a sign of high emotional intelligence. 

She can look at a compassionate man and see his ability to care for others. 

And that translates directly to the ability to care for and lead a family. 

A study of 68,000 people found that for women, traits associated with kindness and compassion were the #1 driving attraction factor in a partner for a relationship.

High-value men are men that build up their relationships and by having compassion, a man brings a deep dynamic into a woman’s life. 

It gives her a sense of emotional and mental safety and shows that in hard situations, he is the kind who will work through it. 

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5. Women see high-value men as emotionally available 

Wanting a man whose emotionally available and willing to share his feelings has almost become a catch phrase in the female dating community. 

Some men refuse to share anything about how they feel while others dump everything they’re going through onto their partners or become aggressive about it. 

The difference between these and a high-value man is how and what they share. 

No woman wants to be a man’s emotional punching bag or have his issues dumped on her. 

A high-value man can share those things he is facing without burdening her. 

A high-value man can dig into her feelings and listen enough to engage with her. 

6. High-value men are men of respect 

When it comes to women respect is really 2 separate paths they look down. 

Women want a man who respects them as individuals and treat them with kindness and consideration. 

Women also want a man who is respectable and who they can respect in a relationship.

And those are 2 totally different things that often require different ways of behaving from a man. 

Treating her with respect and dignity should be a given otherwise she likely wouldn’t be with you in the first place. 

But being a respectable man takes more. 

It takes all of the other traits I’ve discussed. 

A respectable man is one of integrity, honesty, and compassionate. 

A respectable man is one that can be looked up to by her and others around him. 

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7. High-value men have a sense of humor 

Now you don’t have to be the funny guy or always be making her laugh. 

What it does mean is that high-value men can appreciate humor and the funny things that happen in life. 

It’s laughing when things go wrong instead of getting angry. 

It’s the way he carries himself through tough situations and how he handles her quirks, jokes and banter. 

Having a good sense of humor means more than just laughter. 

It puts a woman at ease and makes her more comfortable around a man because she doesn’t have to worry so much. 

It’s a way to show a man is less judgmental and can look at the bright side of situations. 

8. High-value men are mature 

A mature man can handle the situations life throws at him without crumbling or become a jerk. 

He can deal with the smaller details of a relationship and can plan for the future of that relationship. 

This is why maturity is so attractive to women and a high-value man will be very mature. 

He may love to have fun and cut loose but when it comes to his responsibilities and goals, a high-value man will button down and push through. 

Women look at mature men as someone who they can rely on for a real adult relationship. 

They come across as the kind of man she can be a partner with for life. 

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9. High-value men value intelligence 

You don’t have to be the smartest man in the room to be high-value. 

But you do have to be competent. 

In fact, many studies have shown a correlation between a man’s intelligence and the attraction women rate in him.

High-value men value intelligence and that shows in every part of their lives. 

They never stop learning and growing as a man. 

They seek to understand what’s really going on and to get to the bottom of issues. 

And women see intelligent men as attractive for these reasons. 

She can see that he wont be stuck in a dead-end job or unable to provide for a family because he has the intelligence to make something of himself. 

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10. High-value men embody ambition 

Women are deeply attracted to men who are ambitious and driven to succeed. 

And it doesn’t have to look like making 6 figures. 

Ambition is that drive to achieve whatever he is pursuing. 

And women can see that ambitious men are the ones who make something great of themselves. 

Ambitious men are the ones who take the risks and reap the rewards in life when it comes to finances, investments, work, and in love. 

Women also directly tie a man’s ambition in life with the level of energy he will put into their relationship. 

They see the ambitious of a high-value man as a sign of the kind of relationship they will have. 

Women look at ambition like how men look at a woman’s sense of caring or nurturing. 

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11. High-value men follow their passion 

Women love men who are passionate and chase their passion energetically. 

It’s because just like with ambition, she can see his drive to achieve something. 

It doesn’t matter so much what a man’s passions are so long as he shares that energy and enthusiasm with her. 

When she can feel the energy he pours into his passions, her emotions are being driven and for women, that emotional connection is paramount. 

When a woman can see a man pouring energy into something, she can see the success that will come from that one thing, as well as the success that attitude will drive in life. 

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12. High-value men are good communicators 

Communication is one of the key foundations of a healthy relationship. 

So women naturally want men who are good communicators. 

This doesn’t mean being an English professor or a professional writer. 

Instead, it just means being able to actually say what you are thinking or feeling. 

Women feed of emotional energy in a relationship and when a man can communicate and engage with her, it fills up her emotional well. 

It adds energy into her and the relationship. 

It also opens the doors to working through any issues that could be arising, which translates to a mature relationship and one with a real future. 

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13. High-value men are generous 

Generosity is an attractive trait to women because it shows a man’s heart. 

When a woman sees a man who is generous, she can see the kind of man he will be in a relationship. 

She can translate that generosity into him being generous with himself and his love to her. 

It also triggers her drive for hypergamy and the economic safety of a successful man. 

This is because generosity is mentally associated with economic success.  

We can see someone who gives freely as having enough to be able to give freely.  

It’s like a window into the kindness of his heart. 

14. High-value men strive for physical health 

You don’t have to have a 6-pack abs or biceps bigger than her thighs. 

But a high-value man will be in shape. 

The kind of man women think of as high-value has inherent physical attraction and that really comes from 1 thing. 

The basic V taper of a man’s body. 

It’s a biological factor more than any other on this list. 

Men get this shape from lifting heavy things, from working out, and from proper nutrition. 

It’s not easy to have a good body and that is why it is such an attraction factor. 

It signals on a primal level that a man can provide enough for himself to be able to afford the extra calories to build muscle. 

It’s a biological drive for women to be attracted to physically fit men just as it is for men to be attracted to the curvy and sultry shape of fit women. 

Men you have to watch what you put into your body. 

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15. High-value men are emotionally stable 

Just like some of the other things on this list, emotional stability is a multi-faceted thing that comes from a whole host of other traits. 

Being emotionally stable requires maturity to look at an issue without being driven into anger. 

It requires having honesty and openness and willing to communicate, to be able to work through intense emotions. 

And it’s something that allows women to build deeper connections with a man. 

When women look at a man who they see as emotionally stable, he is looked at as emotionally safe. 

In fact a study published in the National Library of Medicine found that emotional stability in a man was a highly desirable trait.

Women see emotionally stable men as the kind that can take on the hardships of a life together and push through to build something amazing. 

Be better and become a high-value man 

These are the 15 qualities of a high-value man that women love and admire.

By developing these qualities, you will not only attract more women into your life, but also improve your self-esteem, happiness and success in all areas of your life.

So what are you waiting for?

Start working on these qualities today and see the difference they make in your life.