A feminine woman is a powerful and attractive thing that men desire in a relationship.  

Femininity is about a woman being authentic, graceful, and nurturing.  

The kind of woman a man can see himself building something more than just dating or sex. 

A feminine woman knows how to embrace her natural beauty, express her emotions, and connect with her partner on a deep level.  

When we are around a woman who is embracing her femininity, it feels good.  

Psychological studies into men have even shown that as a man’s testosterone levels increase so does his drive for finding more feminine features in a woman.

It makes us want to be around her more and to step up and be a better man. 

A woman’s femininity is like her superpower when it comes to men. 

It breaks down our defenses and puts us in a state of peace like nothing else. 

So, here I’ve put together the top 13 reasons why every man wants a feminine woman. 

1. Men love that a feminine woman makes him feel masculine  

A feminine woman brings out the best in her man by complementing his masculine energy.  

She allows him to lead, protect, and provide for her, while she supports, respects, and admires him. 

Now don’t get me wrong here, I’m not saying he should be in control of the relationship, finances or even the breadwinner. 

But that in the relationship she embraces those feminine traits and parts of the relationship which gives her man the chance to step up and embrace his masculine ones. 

She makes him feel strong, and capable of taking on anything. 

2. Feminine women come across as empathetic and compassionate  

A feminine woman has a high level of emotional intelligence and can easily empathize with others.  

She is sensitive to her partner’s feelings and needs, and she shows him kindness and care. 

Men instinctively understand this and seek it out as an attraction factor in women. 

We want a woman who can be empathetic and understanding in our relationship. 

We want a woman who can look at whatever issues we are going through and be one team working together through it. 

3. She is seen as authentic and honest  

A feminine woman is not afraid to be herself and speak her truth.  

She does not pretend to be someone she is not or lie to please others.  

She is genuine and sincere in everything she says and does. 

And men desperately want this in a woman they build a relationship with. 

An honest woman who is true to herself and her relationship is seen by men as loyal and being a good lifelong bet for a partner. 

We see a woman who is authentically feminine as how a woman should be emotionally. 

Supportive and caring yet able to stand for what’s right or true and especially for her love of us. 

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4. Femininity is graceful and elegant to a man  

A feminine woman knows how to carry herself with poise and charm.  

She dresses well and looks nice, but not provocative.  

She moves with ease and confidence, but not arrogance.  

A woman embracing her femininity speaks softly, but not timidly.  

In other words, a feminine woman is graceful but not fragile. 

And that’s what men want. 

We want grace that carries herself through life with beauty and poise and compassion. 

And it’s because as men we are so often hard, and aggressive and having to fight to earn whatever it is we want. 

So, when we see true femininity, it’s like the opposite yet complimentary side of the coin of love for us. 

5. A feminine woman is fun and playful  

Men see a feminine woman as one who knows how to have fun and enjoy life.  

There’s something about the old song Girls Just Wanna Have Fun that is absolutely true and holds true for men. 

Feminine women seem fun to be around for us because of how they make us feel. 

A feminine woman who has a sense of humor and can laugh at herself or at life is easy for men to be with and fall for.  

A feminine woman who is ready to follow her man into adventure and new experiences makes us want to take her and take on those adventures. 

In other words, a feminine woman makes us want to be better and more masculine men. 

6. Men look at feminine women as passionate and sensual  

A feminine woman knows how to express her sexuality and sensuality in a tasteful and respectful way.  

For men, femininity is sexually intriguing.  

It’s like a pheromone we are driven to pursue.  

But it’s important to note that feminine women aren’t vulgar or promiscuous which are 2 of the biggest repulsions for men. 

I may get a lot of hate for saying that but it’s true. 

There is no other way to say it. 

And a feminine woman is naturally sexy and seductive to us without even trying to be. 

Instead, she knows how to seduce her partner with her eyes, her voice, her touch, and her body language, but only gives that to her partner. 

A feminine woman is one who values herself and her future relationships to not give herself away easily or freely to many men. 

If you’re looking for a high-value man, he is also looking for a high-quality woman and to a man her femininity makes that quality.

7. Femininity shows her nurturing and supportive nature  

A feminine woman knows how to take care of herself and her partner.  

She is attentive and affectionate, but not clingy or needy.  

Femininity is seen as encouraging and motivating towards the masculine.  

It’s part of that nurturing feminine spirit to drive us to do better and be better in all we pursue in life. 

A feminine woman can push her man to become something better than he ever dreamed of by supporting and nurturing him along his path. 

And men know this deep down. 

We understand a good woman makes us better men. 

Not only that, but supporting your man builds intimacy and closeness in the relationship.

8. A feminine woman can be dependent and dependable  

A feminine woman knows how to stand on her own feet and pursue her goals and dreams but can also lean against her man for strength and support.  

Today we often hear women being told they must be independent boss babes capable of taking on the world alone.  

But that’s not what men want in a woman or a partner. 

We as men have a deep desire to be depended on, to be able to support and provide for a woman and family. 

And a huge part of being in a positive relationship is being able to be totally dependent on and dependable for your partner. 

She does not depend on her partner for her happiness but works with him to build a happy relationship and life together.  

A truly feminine woman does not need his approval or validation, but she wants and respects it because he is her partner.  

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9. Men view feminine women as optimistic and positive  

Men naturally see femininity as a positive and uplifting thing. 

A feminine woman knows how to see the bright side of life and focus on the good things that happen.  

And this is extremely attractive to men. 

This is part of what men mean when they say things like they want a woman to bring them peace. 

By simply being soft and positive she can put his entire perspective into a different focus. 

She can help make him softer and less aggressive while being more able to think through solutions to his problems. 

Femininity has a way of making us feel happier as men, like we don’t have to be as on guard. 

10. Feminine women are seen as improving themselves 

When a man sees a woman who is trying to embrace her femininity, it comes across as a woman who is going to be constantly trying to improve herself. 

It’s hard for a woman to embrace her feminine energy when so much of society is pushing her to take on the masculine. 

Part of this view from men is the fact that the feminine is creative. 

We instinctively understand the feminine carries and creates life and that goes into other aspects of our lives as well. 

Men look at femininity as a creative energy that builds good things in the world. 

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11. Men know part of femininity in a relationship is being loyal and faithful  

A feminine woman knows how to be committed and devoted to her partner. 

Men see feminine women as having the dignity and respect to turn away any advances from another man instead of flirting or leading into them. 

Part of being feminine is being able to turn away that drive for male attention because her want is only for her man’s attention. 

And for men this is huge. 

There is no greater thing a woman can give a man than herself. 

There is no thing a man wants from a woman more than her to be his totally. 

And it goes beyond trust. 

Femininity, a truly feminine woman is above things like cheating or playing games or manipulation. 

12. Respect and humility are feminine, not weak 

Respect is essential to men.  

It’s because between men respect is something that is earned. 

And when we feel respected from our women, it fills us up like nothing else. 

It makes men feel as though we have earned something from you, like we are truly stepping up and being the man, you want and need. 

We as a society tend to envision the feminine as weak. 

When in reality, it may be soft, it may be submissive, but it is never weak. 

Femininity is like a woman’s true strength that a man wants. 

We can take on the physical and fight the world, what we want from a woman are those soft and more emotional intangible things. 

One of the key parts of building healthy respect in a relationship is by learning how to communicate openly and honestly.

We each have our own love language that speaks to us most and by learning about ours and our partners we can foster the communication in our relationship to new levels.

13. A feminine woman follows her heart  

Men love the feeling a woman gives us when she is following her heart. 

It’s more than just a passion or ambition thing. 

A feminine woman working towards what she loves is a beautiful thing. 

It is like bringing all these feminine traits together and putting them into action. 

Part of that femininity men want from women is that emotional expression and outpouring that comes from a woman’s heart. 

It often gets laughed at how women are more emotional than men, but deep-down men want that. 

I love the fact that my wife is living in an emotional way that is different than the way I live and look at the world. 

And because of that, I am made more whole and more able to view and process the world as a whole. 

Femininity is a woman’s superpower in a relationship  

A feminine woman is a rare and precious gem that every man wants to have in his life.  

She is not perfect, but she is always striving to be the best version of herself.  

And a feminine woman is not a stereotype, she is a unique and beautiful individual.  

Men are driven to want femininity.  

It’s like a drug to us that makes us better men. 

A feminine woman is like the opposite but complimentary side of the coin to our masculinity. 

It softens us and makes us want to be stronger, more open, more fun, better providers, and better partners. 

So, ladies, embrace your femininity and double down on your own relationship superpower because men want to see that in you, we want to see you living comfortably and freely in your feminine energy.